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Episode detailsThe Capacity Map
Build Love
Love as a set of capacities — attention, repair, honesty, desire, boundaries — rather than a feeling you find.
Love is more than a feeling someone finds. It is something people learn to express, protect, repair, deepen, and receive.
Building love means becoming more capable of intimacy, presence, trust, forgiveness, affection, responsibility, and mutual care. Each of those is a skill, which means each of them can be practiced, neglected, or rebuilt.
It also means understanding when love requires boundaries or departure rather than continued endurance.
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